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Living Through Loss

Usually words can't comfort the ... Just being there in silence or ... is ... Nothing can change what has happened but being with the bereaved is the best we can do. The bereaved Usually words can't comfort the grieving. Just being there in silence or listening is comforting. Nothing...

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Two Fairy Tales Reveal the Secret of Life

TWO FAIRY TALES REVEAL THE SECRET OF LIFEWhen we were young we became ... with the stories of Red Riding Hood and ... Both these little girls have ... with wild beasts and one is TWO FAIRY TALES REVEAL THE SECRET OF LIFEWhen we were young we became acquainted with...

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The Hidden Law

THE HIDDEN LAWWhen you were at school your teachers, unknowingly, did you a disservice by only revealing half the truth about the world. The consequences of imperfect knowledge are truly devastating, ... THE HIDDEN LAWWhen you were at school your teachers, unknowingly, did you a disservice by only revealing half...

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The Folly of Problem Solving

THE FOLLY OF PROBLEM ... my name is Tom. In this short article I want to convince you that a strategy for getting nice ... is more ... than a strategy leading to a ... ou THE FOLLY OF PROBLEM SOLVINGHello, my name is Tom. In this short article I...

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The Melting Pot

THE MELTING ... has been called a ‘melting pot’. This, I think, is an accurate ... But what is a melting pot? I imagine a pot full of some solid ... that has ... a transfor THE MELTING POTSociety has been called a ‘melting pot’. This, I think, is an...

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The Fate of Public Enemy Number One

THE FATE OF PUBLIC ENEMY NUMBER ONEWe live in a world of ... But, ... to science, patterns are ... Any patterns that do occur are ... as chance events that become quickly reabs THE FATE OF PUBLIC ENEMY NUMBER ONEWe live in a world of patterns. But, according to...

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Why Do Trees, Frogs and People Exist

WHY DO TREES, FROGS AND PEOPLE ... a miracle that we are here at all. Our very best ... tell us that the whole world has been going down the tubes from the very ... It’s true. As WHY DO TREES, FROGS AND PEOPLE EXIST?It’s a miracle that we are...

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Virus of the Mind

VIRUS OF THE ... heard of ordinary viruses – those ... entities that get inside your body and ... ... They war against your natural ... and make you feel rotten. A VIRUS OF THE MINDYou’ve heard of ordinary viruses – those microscopic entities that get inside your body and...

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Needs

(c) Rinatta Paries, 2001. Do you know "what it takes" to attract and sustain your ideal ... ... Coach Rinatta Paries offers quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine to help (c) Rinatta Paries, 2001. Do you know "what it takes" to attract and sustain your ideal relationship? Relationship...

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It's How (Not If) We Live That Counts

I have this little fantasy about dying one day, going to heaven, or wherever God holds the ... Q& A ... and finally learning what it is all about. After years to consider and hone th I have this little fantasy about dying one day, going to heaven, or wherever...

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Invest in Positive Possibilities

A young woman who just bought a lottery ticket for a chance to win a ... dollar jackpot was recently ... on the 6 o’clock news. She was ... ... about the ... o A young woman who just bought a lottery ticket for a chance to win a multi-million...

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Choose Ones that Cry

Do you have a friend who tends to well up with ... easily? Those tender ones who won't hurt a flea,and whom you ... accuse of going ... with ... do you steer clear of them Do you have a friend who tends to well up with tearsvery easily? Those...

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Communication 101

Do you remember what it’s like to learn to drive a standard shift car? Or to play a musical ... Or ride a bicycle? At first the task seems ... far too complex to ever be ... Do you remember what it’s like to learn to drive a standard shift...

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10 Steps to Better Resolutions for 2002

Another ‘Be a Better People Person’ free monthly E-zine brought to you by Trevor Barre – Life and ... ... ... month, I would like to share, with ... a fellow coach’s s Another ‘Be a Better People Person’ free monthly E-zine brought to you by Trevor Barre – Life...

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Memoirs of a Wedding Singer

It's been several years since I left the band I was with. As I reflect upon my life --the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, (does that mean I'm getting old?), I look upon my ... with the band with It's been several years since I left the band I...

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Characteristics To Help Find The Work Of Your Dreams

"Why am I not happy?" "Why is life a ... "Why doesn't work, work?" We probe our soul with ... like these, but we will never hear the answers if we don't take time off in our hectic days t "Why am I not happy?" "Why is life a struggle?"...

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20 Questions to Ask a Recruiter


Here is a list of 20 questions you should ask a recruiter or any of your friends in your target company to get to know if that is your dream company. So you have about to finish your MBA from one of the top B-schools in India and you are...

When Couples Fight


Arguments happen. They occur naturally in the course of any human relationship. The varied differences between people and their opinions make disagreements inevitable. But when the verbal exchange cro... Arguments happen. They occur naturally in the course of any human relationship. The varied differences between people and their opinions make...

Understanding Betrayal


When we are caught off guard by the transgressions of those dear to us, we are left wondering why they happened. More than being hurt, the unexpected affront fills us with a sense of disbelief. And wh... When we are caught off guard by the transgressions of those dear to...

Complete Love


Not all romantic relationships can be considered to possess complete love. It was Yale University psychology professor Robert Sternberg whose famous Triangular Theory expounded upon the three integral... Not all romantic relationships can be considered to possess complete love. It was Yale University psychology professor Robert Sternberg whose famous Triangular...

Loving for the wrong reasons


The desire to love is compelling. It is a force so strong that it is difficult to overcome.  Relationships are a natural consequence of the fundamental need to love.  It forms an integral part of the... The desire to love is compelling. It is a force so strong that it...

Expectations can hurt us


     When we give, it is but natural for us to expect something in return. This is true for any kind of human relationship whether it be friendships, romantic relationships or family ties. There is no...      When we give, it is but natural for us to expect something in return. This...

Escaping One's Past


     We all commit mistakes. There are myriad reasons why they happen. And when they do, all we want is to put our mistakes behind us. Sometimes we even attempt to erase them from memory.      Yet th...      We all commit mistakes. There are myriad reasons why they happen. And when they...

Appreciating Life


Life has purpose if we choose to find it and strive towards its fulfillment. But what of one’s demise? When the death of someone whom we hold dear comes too soon and unexpectedly, what purpose d... Life has purpose if we choose to find it and strive towards its fulfillment....

Seeking the approval of others


When we are deciding upon something, especially when it involves a serious issue, we occasionally seek the opinion of others. This is natural since there is wisdom in obtaining the advice of those clo... When we are deciding upon something, especially when it involves a serious issue, we occasionally seek...

Greater than our imperfections


To be human, is to be imperfect. We are all flawed, frail and prone to error. This is our undeniable nature. And this adds to the uniqueness of each person. But how do these imperfections affect us? ... To be human, is to be imperfect. We are all flawed, frail...

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Greater than our imperfections

To be human, is to be imperfect. We are all flawed, frail and prone to error. This is our undeniable nature. And this adds to the uniqueness of each person. But how do these imperfections affect us? ... To be human, is to be imperfect. We are all flawed, frail...

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