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Living Through Loss

Usually words can't comfort the ... Just being there in silence or ... is ... Nothing can change what has happened but being with the bereaved is the best we can do. The bereaved Usually words can't comfort the grieving. Just being there in silence or listening is comforting. Nothing...

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Two Fairy Tales Reveal the Secret of Life

TWO FAIRY TALES REVEAL THE SECRET OF LIFEWhen we were young we became ... with the stories of Red Riding Hood and ... Both these little girls have ... with wild beasts and one is TWO FAIRY TALES REVEAL THE SECRET OF LIFEWhen we were young we became acquainted with...

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The Hidden Law

THE HIDDEN LAWWhen you were at school your teachers, unknowingly, did you a disservice by only revealing half the truth about the world. The consequences of imperfect knowledge are truly devastating, ... THE HIDDEN LAWWhen you were at school your teachers, unknowingly, did you a disservice by only revealing half...

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The Folly of Problem Solving

THE FOLLY OF PROBLEM ... my name is Tom. In this short article I want to convince you that a strategy for getting nice ... is more ... than a strategy leading to a ... ou THE FOLLY OF PROBLEM SOLVINGHello, my name is Tom. In this short article I...

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The Melting Pot

THE MELTING ... has been called a ‘melting pot’. This, I think, is an accurate ... But what is a melting pot? I imagine a pot full of some solid ... that has ... a transfor THE MELTING POTSociety has been called a ‘melting pot’. This, I think, is an...

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The Fate of Public Enemy Number One

THE FATE OF PUBLIC ENEMY NUMBER ONEWe live in a world of ... But, ... to science, patterns are ... Any patterns that do occur are ... as chance events that become quickly reabs THE FATE OF PUBLIC ENEMY NUMBER ONEWe live in a world of patterns. But, according to...

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Why Do Trees, Frogs and People Exist

WHY DO TREES, FROGS AND PEOPLE ... a miracle that we are here at all. Our very best ... tell us that the whole world has been going down the tubes from the very ... It’s true. As WHY DO TREES, FROGS AND PEOPLE EXIST?It’s a miracle that we are...

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Virus of the Mind

VIRUS OF THE ... heard of ordinary viruses – those ... entities that get inside your body and ... ... They war against your natural ... and make you feel rotten. A VIRUS OF THE MINDYou’ve heard of ordinary viruses – those microscopic entities that get inside your body and...

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Needs

(c) Rinatta Paries, 2001. Do you know "what it takes" to attract and sustain your ideal ... ... Coach Rinatta Paries offers quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine to help (c) Rinatta Paries, 2001. Do you know "what it takes" to attract and sustain your ideal relationship? Relationship...

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It's How (Not If) We Live That Counts

I have this little fantasy about dying one day, going to heaven, or wherever God holds the ... Q& A ... and finally learning what it is all about. After years to consider and hone th I have this little fantasy about dying one day, going to heaven, or wherever...

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Invest in Positive Possibilities

A young woman who just bought a lottery ticket for a chance to win a ... dollar jackpot was recently ... on the 6 o’clock news. She was ... ... about the ... o A young woman who just bought a lottery ticket for a chance to win a multi-million...

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Choose Ones that Cry

Do you have a friend who tends to well up with ... easily? Those tender ones who won't hurt a flea,and whom you ... accuse of going ... with ... do you steer clear of them Do you have a friend who tends to well up with tearsvery easily? Those...

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Communication 101

Do you remember what it’s like to learn to drive a standard shift car? Or to play a musical ... Or ride a bicycle? At first the task seems ... far too complex to ever be ... Do you remember what it’s like to learn to drive a standard shift...

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10 Steps to Better Resolutions for 2002

Another ‘Be a Better People Person’ free monthly E-zine brought to you by Trevor Barre – Life and ... ... ... month, I would like to share, with ... a fellow coach’s s Another ‘Be a Better People Person’ free monthly E-zine brought to you by Trevor Barre – Life...

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Memoirs of a Wedding Singer

It's been several years since I left the band I was with. As I reflect upon my life --the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, (does that mean I'm getting old?), I look upon my ... with the band with It's been several years since I left the band I...

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Characteristics To Help Find The Work Of Your Dreams

"Why am I not happy?" "Why is life a ... "Why doesn't work, work?" We probe our soul with ... like these, but we will never hear the answers if we don't take time off in our hectic days t "Why am I not happy?" "Why is life a struggle?"...

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The right time to forgive


     An unexpected affront by someone we know, someone we trust, someone we hold dear inflicts upon us severe emotional pain. The closer the person is to us, the more painful we perceive the offense t...      An unexpected affront by someone we know, someone we trust or someone we hold dear...

How Guilt Can Change Us


     Circumstances may time and again move us to act in ways contrary to how we see ourselves. Maybe it happens unexpectedly without our intention. Or perhaps doing so was convenient at the time. But ...      Circumstances may time and again move us to act in ways contrary to how we...

Overcoming Doubt


     The one true threat to the longevity of a relationship is doubt. Trust is the foundation without which a relationship cannot exist. Doubt is the absence of trust. Whether or not there is a reason... The one true threat to the longevity of a relationship is doubt. Trust is the...

Peace of Mind Starts in the Household


When we consider the personality of an individual, too often do we fail to see how that person’s household situation affects him. We routinely assign blame to the person for whatever omissions o... When we consider the personality of an individual, too often do we fail to see how that...

Helplessness Unlearned


Many of us experience a sense of melancholy because we have been conditioned to believe that we are powerless to change our lives. We begin to see the monotonous routine of our existence. What aggrava... Many of us experience a sense of melancholy because we have been conditioned to believe...

Choosing yourself


     Society teaches us to value the welfare of others over our own. And this is often the reason why we feel conflicted when faced with a choice between helping others and helping ourselves. In the e...      Society teaches us to value the welfare of others over our own. And this...

Is your relationship healthy?


     How do you know if your partner is right for you? A long-lasting relationship is a good thing of and by itself. But having a healthy relationship is an entirely different matter altogether. Even ...      How do you know if your partner is right for you? A long-lasting relationship is...

Trying is not enough


     We all desire some degree of achievement in life. We all hope for a modicum of success.      Unfortunately, many of us have been conditioned to believe that having grand goals is a delusion and ...      We all desire some degree of achievement in life. We all hope for a modicum...

A reason to exist


We may have all been there. We may have all reached a point in our lives where the only thing we could feel is an overwhelming sense of despair and misery. We know we are already there when our fear o... We may have all been there. We may have...

A History of Emotional Wounds: The Inability to Love


Not everyone is meant to follow society’s norms and live a conventional life. Not all are equipped for a happy married existence like most people. Some are just not built this way. There are ind... Not everyone is meant to follow society’s norms and live a conventional life. Not all...

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A History of Emotional Wounds: The Inability to Love

Not everyone is meant to follow society’s norms and live a conventional life. Not all are equipped for a happy married existence like most people. Some are just not built this way. There are ind... Not everyone is meant to follow society’s norms and live a conventional life. Not all...

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