Fighting Terrorism With Enchantment – Part 2

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Last week we ...
how THE ... SELF's first three of The Seven Portals to ...
preserve us from ... and even worse -- terror.
Let's look at some more ways that we can fig Last week we discovered how THE ENCHANTED SELF's first three of The Seven Portals to Enchantment, preserve us from disenchantment and even worse -- terror. Let's look at some more ways that we can fight this madness and get back to a more positive way of life.Let's enter the fourth portal: Making Ourselves the Hero or Heroine of Our Own Lives.
Ah, this is such an essential step. And yet what does stress and terror do? They can make us feel meaningless, without purpose, again emotionally flattened.
What is good mental health? It encompasses, for sure, a sense that my life not only has meaning but also was worth it. I not only came through difficulties, but the adventure was well worth it! I took the roller coaster ride of a lifetime and came out the winner.
Often times after a shocking event we don't know what role to play or feel extraneous to what is going on at 'ground zero'. These are normal feelings and we must realize that each of us has a unique role and purpose in life that no one else can fill.
Think about the story of your life. How did you get this far? How did your background end up working for you? What have been some of the highlights of your life? Look for the heroic even on a very small scale.
I can guarantee that you will have plenty of opportunities to still use your unique strengths and talents.I was the little girl who kept a secret Girl Scout diary with tons of misspelled words! I wrote every night not knowing exactly why and here I am now with a chance to write to you via the Internet. All that practice was part of my story.
You have yours and never forget it!Could you guess that the fifth portal is Belonging to Tribes, or communities? Often after a terrorist attack people are afraid to go out, join others, go about their business. This is exactly what the terrorists want and it interferes completely with our human needs to belong, to share, and to be part of something.
What are some of your tribes special to you? I hope you make every effort to get out and stay connected to them. For me, one of my first steps was going to a local rally and crying, singing, holding hands with strangers and donating goods with lots of others.
The sixth portal is Finding Mentors. When we are attacked, it is our hope and optimism that is often most attacked and in essence our future.
What we need most is to get that back. This is where mentors help so much.
We need to find positive mentors everywhere -- the heroes on television, friends and positive e-letters on the web, loved ones, good books, fine music and even animals that teach us so much about love and connection. Don't laugh, but laughter is a mentor of sorts.
Laughing takes us back to our positive center by teaching us how good it feels to feel good! Who are some of your mentors?The last portal is the Gateway of Positive Action. Often, when terror strikes we feel helpless and in paralysis.
Good mental health requires that we move beyond these feelings. Inactivity is not good for us.
Positive action is the best antidote to mental 'poison.' Why? Because we not only help ourselves but others in the process. We start the chain reaction that eventually sends a message that we will not be swamped by darkness.
Remember how much darkness one little candle can get rid of? We are each potentially thousands of candles. What are some positive actions you can take over the next few weeks? Jot them down.
These actions can feel good to do and also be good for you as well as others. For me, one of my positive actions is that I am writing to you and I hope that fits the above definition.
I enjoy writing to you! I look forward to responses from you and most importantly I hope my message has been good for you! Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com .